How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 11:40

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

I've never read the book. What did Dorian Grey do that was so immoral and sinful?

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Do you think that drug addiction is a symptom of larger societal ills? What is it about our culture that leaves so many feeling like they're inadequate, trying any ill to find a cure?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Does not procrastinate.

That's it for today.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Is it just me, or is it hard to find novels that are different compared to each other without the variety of them having to be a mystery/crime, and romance/fantasy?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I have a bad reputation and need help. What should I do?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What are some reasons why people may fear strong men?

Ask yourself:

Making more friends is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What I need from you?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.